Confused

Well I have been working on my dissertation and I am confused. I keep thinking that at some point I might hear something I thought I would but no - that would be way too easy! So, I just keep on doing interviews in the hope that something will start to make sense to me. I guess I should clarify - I understand what they are saying just not why - what is different about these woman than the woman in the literature? I guess I will have to wait and see what happens but patience is really not a strong suit of mine so I keep talking to people about it and wondering out loud how it works - I need to talk with my advisor and Linda but this is the last week of the semester and it is crazy busy for everyone so I can wait.
Any thoughts about this?